Friendship.....a very important topic...but in today's society a Friend is seen as someone who is easily disposed. Lets just say friends don't hold as much importance as they did back in the day. Today its all about quantity rather than quality. I mean its rare that two people keep in touch from middle school or let alone be friends. I think that LOYALTY is one of the main reasons why friendships fail nowadays......with females loyalty is much harder to find then with males......i don't really really know why and as a female i have witnessed how fake and disloyal females can be....its' really sad to say but it's true.....i mean you see on t.v shows all the time where people have been friends since they were like i don't know ...five....and then the girl sleeps with her best friends boyfriend or husband....to me that is pathetic and sad.....and then there are the girls that are like a crew and what not...and then they will smile and be like "oh hey girl"....and then when they leave they'll be like...."did you see what she was wearing?'......"she thinks she's the shizz"...I mean its sad but its a reality for a lot of females....now to go onto males .....they are in many ways a lot less complicated when it comes to friendships..... for 1....they do less talking about each other...like say if a dude didn't like some other guy they would tell him to his face or not talk to him at all....rather than talking about him to another dude and then smiling in his face when he comes around...<----people who do thinks like this are fake ....it takes up to much time and energy to be fake....if you don't like somebody then tell them that you don't and why....and maybe....just maybe you guys might be able to settle your differences.... and if not you can go your separate ways....or if need be fight.....i don't know...lol....but whatever you do don't be fake!!.......
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